I've never liked In These Arms. For lack of a better word, it's just too wimpy for me. I thought the video stunk too. The lyrics are just too sweet for a guy to be singing. Always and I'll Be There For You are probably in my top 5 Bon Jovi songs, so I'm not totally against the love songs, but In These Arms just doesn't work for me. When they play it live, like they did last year in Raleigh NC, I go get beer. Bad thing was I missed the beginning of Just Older. There are a few others that I'm not crazy about, but not to the level of In These Arms. My wife likes it though, so go figure.