Great thoughts,
I dont know if it helps much, but i was there in 1990 - both shows - one of the best nights of my life.
I was a youngin, and was just flowering skills at getting things done, but i distinctly remember, as i think about it embarrassingly often, about the man that i talked to while surrounded by bon jovi family members in the balcony of the first show - was down front for the second - wow
The man had a camera. I started talking to him and asked him how i could get involved. He showed me the camera. In my mind now i think it was a dv camera - not the supersmall kind, but not a vhs or betamax. He said there was no way as he was hired by the band to film it. It was just a guy, with a handheld camera, nothing professional or even on a tripod i dont think....maybe there was....
Ever since then, just knowing its out there.....actual silent night, cadillac man, never say die acoustic piano......
Still have my tshirt.....
anything i can do to help let me know - a great quest