My story is simple and probably, in most cases, a pretty common scenario.
Bon Jovi -> Richie Sambora.
I got to know the band first. Fell in love with music. Rediscovered Richie. Fell in love all over again.
The fact that he's in fact half-Polish adds to it because I'm Polish as well. And I've more drawn to Richie's personality and the way he communicates with the world through his sense of humour, sensitivity, creativity and music. Generally, as a whole person on so many different levels.
I also appreciate Jon's insatiable drive to become the world phenomenon which he managed to pull off so *seemingly* effortlessly and other boys' talents and hard work, too. Obviously, the spirit of BJ was everybody's contribution, more or less even.
They're both so different you're instantly tempted to take sides when there's any conflict on the horizon but it's differences that make people fall for one another and it's the chemistry that glues them together. Too bad we've witnessed such a spectacular rift and had to accept something died. The worst thing is passing judgement, though. We don't know the whole truth and I doubt we ever will.
Jon has more fans, that's a fact. All frontmen have most of the fanbase under their spell. But quality and quantity are not the same thing. We are all searching for our soulmates in this world. Even if it's 'just' on the fan/idol level and it's more of our image of that person that the reality. Hell, how long can you pretend to be someone else anyway?
Love shines all the way through
BTW. If it weren't for the bad things in life, we wouldn't progress much in life. Let's hope these tough moments will teach them a lesson. I remember watching recent Axl Rose's interviews and folks are stunned how come he isn't such a pr***k anymore. They fell out for almost 2 decades! They had a lot of time to grow up.
Cheers xx